By Erich Schoeman | Clinical Psychologist When people first hear the word boundaries, it can sound strange. We understand boundaries between countries. We understand boundaries between neighbours. We understand the wall, the fence, the gate, the electric fencing, the...
By Erich Schoeman | Clinical Psychologist Conflict in marriage is inevitable. When two people share their lives, with different personalities, expectations, and sensitivities, moments of tension will arise. This is not a failure of the relationship. It is part of the...
By Erich Schoeman | Clinical Psychologist Do you want a relationship that is close, works well and is full of understanding, support and fun? Let’s look at one of the key components to this – communication. It is one of the most spoken about topics in relationships....
By Erich Schoeman (Clinical Psychologist | Trainer | Speaker) Matters of the Soul Sex is one of the most powerful and misunderstood aspects of Christian marriage. Culturally, we are fed two dominant narratives. The first says that passionate, exciting sex belongs to...
written by Christian Clinical Psychologist Erich Schoeman A Step-by-Step Guide for Christian Couples Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust, but it doesn’t have to be the end of a marriage. With humility, truth, and grace, couples can walk a path of healing. This...
RESTORATION AFTER AN AFFAIR A Christian Psychology Perspective By Erich Schoeman (Clinical Psychologist; Trainer & Speaker) Matters of the Soul/Sake van die Siel (www.mattersofthesoul.org) “Sandy is still shaken up. It feels like her world has turned upside down....
