by admin | 25 Feb 2026
By Erich Schoeman | Clinical Psychologist Trauma is something most of us will encounter in some form during our lifetime. Not every day. Not constantly. But at some point in our lives, something happens that shakes us, something that unsettles our sense of safety,...
by admin | 20 Feb 2026
By Erich Schoeman (Clinical Psychologist | Trainer | Speaker) Matters of the Soul Sex is one of the most powerful and misunderstood aspects of Christian marriage. Culturally, we are fed two dominant narratives. The first says that passionate, exciting sex belongs to...
by admin | 21 Oct 2025
written by Christian Clinical Psychologist Erich Schoeman A Step-by-Step Guide for Christian Couples Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust, but it doesn’t have to be the end of a marriage. With humility, truth, and grace, couples can walk a path of healing. This...
by admin | 30 Sep 2025
RESTORATION AFTER AN AFFAIR A Christian Psychology Perspective By Erich Schoeman (Clinical Psychologist; Trainer & Speaker) Matters of the Soul/Sake van die Siel (www.mattersofthesoul.org) “Sandy is still shaken up. It feels like her world has turned upside down....
by admin | 10 Jun 2025
“Grief is like the ocean; it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim” -Vicki Harrison Loss is an unavoidable part of life and grief is the natural response to loss and part of the...
